#YesAllWomen – Reaction To #BengaluruMolestation and #NotAllMen


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I was groped immediately after cops commenced caning individuals,” a survivor speaks in a piece on Bangalore Mirror. By now, it is international news that hundreds of women were being molested in Bengaluru on New Year’s Eve, even even though 1500 cops ended up deployed but could not do anything at all. We been given assorted reactions from leading officers from the Police Commissioner of Bengaluru denying the incident to politicians like G. Parameshwara and Abu Azmi blaming it on ‘western’ outfits and comparing females and guys to sugar and ants respectively.

Now, 1 would suppose that there would be mass outrage by ladies and males alike specifically due to the fact we as a country have mastered the artwork of outraging write-up 2012. Nonetheless, when we woke up to do the job (which also means Twitter) write-up-holiday break slumber on January 3, we noticed #NotAllMen trending. A nation which acquired large destructive limelight all through Delhi’s 2012 gangrape and murder circumstance and which has been branded as a ‘rape country’ could answer to mass molestation in 2017 with #NotAllMen speaks volumes about how neither we have discovered a lot nor we are inclined to shift forward.

Two times right after the molestation was reported by mainstream information media, Indian gentlemen stormed social media and flooded it with how ‘#NotAllMen are rapists’. What these adult men and their little butthurt moi failed to have an understanding of is ‘we are NOT saying all males are rapists, but ALL gals have been harassed, groped, molested, assaulted, raped or have been victims of sexual violence at least after in their life span. This is not about you, so kindly shut up!’.

January 3 is also Savitribai Phule – India’s initial feminine trainer of the 1st faculty for women of all ages and girls and anti-caste activist’s – delivery anniversary. We had been occupied composing and submitting about Savitribai and dismissed the #NotAllMen hashtag assuming it will die down shortly. But boy, Indian males proved us completely wrong and how!

Until subsequent day, January 4, the hashtag was alive and nicely kicking. Which is when we determined, ample is adequate! Just like general public spaces, males had occupied the on line house as very well and women’s voices had been not listened to. It was essential for females to arrive out and reclaim the space as very well as the narrative and most importantly react to the idiocy of #NotAllMen.

Hence, on January 4, we made a contact via our Twitter tackle asking women to share their tales of harassment, molestation or sexual violence on Twitter with the hashtag #YesAllWomen.

We tagged the lively handles from our followers, urging them to make some noise in purchase to reclaim the narrative. Facet by aspect, we received alongside one another as a team and started off tweeting from our respective individual handles.

In the beginning, many consumers started tweeting to us without the need of the hashtag. We had to then ask for them to not skip out hashtags in purchase to enhance the amount of men and women tweeting with the exact same hashtag and consequently make it trending.

What started off then can be securely termed as feminist digital activism at its finest. Our get in touch with slowly began gaining traction as the sentiment obviously struck a chord with a great deal of gals. There was this feeling of solidarity and sisterhood being fashioned as extra and much more girls noticed other girls speak out about their encounters. This is just one of the most important causes why, right after a handful of several hours, #YesAllWomen started trending. As far more gals noticed their experiences echoed in individuals of other females, they felt pushed to produce in with their tales far too.

Hundreds of females flooded social media (mostly Twitter, but some have been noticed on Facebook and Instagram as perfectly) with particular stories of how they have been sexually violated as a little one, as a teenager, as an adult, at houses, at parks, at places of work and faculties, in the bus, in the metro, in the airplane, in the practice, even at temples and churches, by uncles and brothers, friends and foes, instructors and guardians alike. Indian girls arrived out and owned it!


All people jumped on the bandwagon, such as some models and information media platforms. That was when we realised the worth of tweeting continually, with the accurate hashtag in every tweet and of sending all tweets as a reply to the main tweet. What we also ensured was to Retweet and Quote tweets of girls who wrote in to us. We also discovered a couple threads by females who had composed about their encounters of sexual abuse before and then QTed them with the #YesAllWomen hashtag.

On the other hand, as is the circumstance with any prosperous occasion, there are constantly some get together-poopers. Japleen and a couple of other on line mates gained tweets from males indicating how we are bragging and lying about our incidents of sexual violence for ‘publicity’. A single even advised that Japleen ought to place a blade in her butt, even though one more stated, ‘please really do not tweet this sort of stories as gentlemen get “upset”.’ And certainly, the evergreen concern, ‘why were being you out?’. Converse about male entitlement!

Responses had been pouring in very well until the up coming two times, it garnered a lot of media focus and coverage. We also Storify-ed some of the responses right here. It has also resulted in a multi-metropolis night march by the name of #IWillGoOut, staying planned for later this thirty day period to reclaim our proper to stroll the streets at working day and night time, alike (more facts coming quickly). We program to preserve the momentum heading and continue to keep a verify on these kinds of trends in future for a well timed reaction.

Also Study: Expensive Males, You Gain. #NotAllMen

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